Remembrance Day has come and gone, with the usual discussions about whether it would be better remembered as a holiday and what it really means. A recent poll showed that about 50% of the population was able to direct their remembrance towards a specific individual, whether it be a grandparent, relative, friend, neighbour...
I stopped to observe the obligatory minute of silence, but it felt a little hollow, especially since I’m a member of the other 50%. What I cherish is that I’ve been lucky enough to be born in a period of time with no world conflict that would force me into a combat role. There have been plenty of wars in the world, from Korea and Viet Nam to Afghanistan, but they have not sucked my generation into the madness, -at least not here in Canada.
What can I remember? One of the slogans for Remembrance Day is “Lest we forget.” Forget what? Certainly the sacrifices that were made by those warriors who have had to defend our way of life, and still do. Regardless of whether we agree with the particular wars, regardless of the accused atrocities that are the collateral damage of war, I don’t have anything but respect for those that are willing to serve their country. If there is a blame for the atrocities or pointlessness of war, it is with the politicians and powerful military industries and high ranking officers who manipulate young men and women into situations where there are no right choices. Placing young, often naive soldiers in situations where they have to make life and death situations and where there are temptations/pressures to act in abominable ways is NOT their fault. Most of the time, I can honour their courage.
But the other slogan, popular after WW1, was “Never Again”. Later it was used primarily for the Holocaust, but originally it was meant as an anti-war statement after WW1. It was supposed to be the war that ended all wars. “Never Again” was the world supposed to consume itself in a madness that would extinguish so many young, innocent lives and mangle others. To remember is to remember that these soldiers sacrificed themselves so that peace would prevail and so that freedom can be enjoyed. I therefore choose to remember my commitment to peace and to practice my freedom as my way of honouring their sacrifices.
Remembrance Day should in no way glorify war or glamorize battle. War is an atrocity, -a social madness. Battle is hell. Rather, it should glorify and promote the things that the soldiers fought for, peace and freedom. We should remember the horrors with the aim of making sure that no more should have to endure it. This is not always possible to accomplish, which is why we have Peace Keeping Forces, but we should never lose sight of the fact that must be the ultimate goal.
Recently, some people have revived the old custom of wearing white poppies for peace rather than the blood red poppies of death and war. It was originally done by widows after WW1. It is ironic that those promoting and controlling red poppies are complaining about copyright infringement and threatening to take action. Maybe they need to "remember" what the real purpose of this day is.